In 1951, Lewis Fry Richardson had a problem. While studying the length of the border between Spain and Portugal, he found that the two countries were reporting different results. This was due to differences in measuring standards employed – the smaller the ruler, the greater the overall length. This phenomenon is called “the coastline paradox,” and it centers on the idea that measurement is subjective. That might also be the case if we’re starting to wonder how much stuff we have at home. What some might consider a lot might be the norm for others. The same can be said about the things inside our homes.
Let’s take a deeper dive into this topic and see much stuff people actually have in their homes and what they can do when they have too many possessions.
How many items are there in the American household?
To say our homes have a lot of things is probably an understatement. But how many are there, really? To find out, let’s decide on a way to count them. For instance, is a box of matches one item or 100? Is a box of rice one item or 2,000? Most people would agree they are each one item. But what about a toolbox filled with tools? What about a three-piece suit? Does furniture count? Do drapes?
One thing is sure, though: there is no clear-cut consensus on how we should count the items in our home, so it’s hard to come up with a number.
How much do we spend for the items inside our homes?
There are basic expenses such as rent or home mortgage, utilities, groceries and clothing. Others, on the other hand, are also useful, but perhaps fall lower on the scale of urgency. Think of furnishings and home décor. Americans spend, on average, 31K to furnish a 2-bedroom home. Costs can vary based on home size, from $3,500 for a one-bedroom to $95K for luxury furnishings in a three-bedroom or four-bedroom home. Looking at it from an annual budget perspective, people spent, on average, $2,700 on furniture in 2021, based on a consumer expenditures report issued by the Bureau of Labor Statistics. According to the same report, housekeeping supplies cost us about $800/year. Moreover, personal care products and services can shave $770 off the annual budget. Reading material can cost up to $114 per year.
In 2021, Americans made an average of 5 impulse buys per month, and e-commerce grew by an additional 14%. As lockdown measures loosened, the average household expenditure on entertainment shot up by almost 23%.
How well can our homes accommodate our stuff?
We live in a consumerist society, and owning things is integral to the American way of life. But can our homes fit everything we own? A cursory glance at the average single family home size tells us that we get about 2,611 square feet of space for homes built in 2019. That’s 143 square feet more than in 2010. Household sizes, on the other hand, have stayed relatively the same, registering about 2.5 members per household, one of the lowest historically. For families with children, having a single family home might not be a lot of space. Families end up spending about $6,500 on toys for their children, according to the Toy Industry Association. To get a better idea of what that means, children end up playing with 70 to 100 toys at any given age, based on the same source.
Signs you have too much stuff
You might be wondering what having too much stuff means. Here are some signs indicating that you might do better with fewer belongings:
- Navigating your home is difficult – if passing through a room requires your full attention and caution, it may be a sign that there are too many things usurping your precious living space.
- You often buy duplicates by mistake – clutter leads to forgetting what things you have and where you put them. If you find this happens often, it may be a sign of clutter.
- You spend way too much time managing your home space – keeping things tidy should be a minor maintenance task. If you find yourself having to shuffle things around to make room on the recliner every time you want to sit down, it may be time to do a little organizing.
- You own items that you’ve never used or opened – sure, some items gain value over time if unopened. But those things should never be an active nuisance.
- You feel stressed at home, as if there’s always something that needs doing – do you have that nagging feeling that something always needs doing, but you can’t figure out what? Our environment is hugely influential on our state of mind. Doing a little cleaning and organizing can work wonders on your mental health.
Why clutter isn’t good for you
We already know that we tend to accumulate a lot of stuff in our homes. But when do belongings become too much? Ultimately, how much stuff we need is a matter of personal preference and choice. However, when belongings start to encroach on your living space, they might create clutter. As it turns out, clutter isn’t just inconvenient. It actually has negative consequences for your well-being, both mental and physical. Let’s take a look at how clutter can affect your life:
Clutter is expensive:
People with cluttered houses are literally shrinking the amount of usable real estate they have at home, getting less space for what they pay. Not only that, but clutter can lead to unnecessary duplicate purchases as people might forget whether they have certain items at home or not.
Clutter is inefficient:
Clutter leads to more time spent looking for things instead of doing what you love. The average American spent a total of 2.5 days per year looking for stuff in 2017.
What stuff do I really need?
In order to decide which items to keep, you have to judge your belongings by their usefulness to you or to others. Here are a few questions to ask yourself when decluttering:
- How often do I use this item? – If it’s less than once every 1-2 months, it’s probably better off stored somewhere else. There’s no reason why the Christmas decorations should be taking up space in your closet for 11 out of the 12 months.
- Do I need this item, or can its function be fulfilled by something else I already own? – When it comes to making new purchases consider whether the item you’re contemplating buying has a true functionality that no other item you already possess has. This might make you reconsider before adding that breadmaker to your online shopping cart.
- Can someone else use this item? –If you’re deciding to part with some items, you can put them into the “donate” pile. Goodwill stores and charity foundations gladly accept donations. Make sure that belongings are in good shape, functional and gently used.
The 3 Best Quick Tips For Decluttering:
If you’re ready to part with some things to make your living space more manageable, here’s what you need to do:
- Sort things into 3 piles:
2. Label Everything – We don’t have X-ray vision like Superman, unfortunately. Until we do, label every container you keep things in.
3. Do a yearly inventory – Take note of the things in your house. This will help you assess which items you use frequently and which items would be better off stored somewhere else.
Turn to self storage to help you manage your belongings
Sometimes, even after sorting your items and organizing everything, you may find your home is not able to accommodate all your belongings. To stay away from clutter, you can put them in storage. A storage unit is perfect for things that typically see seasonal use, such as clothing, décor, outdoor gear and more. You can also keep sensitive items such as art collections and musical instruments in a climate-controlled unit that helps to preserve their qualities.
You can start with a 5’x5’ unit to keep some clothing and a few decorations, but you should probably upgrade to a 5’x10’ or a 10’x10’ unit if you have more items. If you’re not sure which unit is ideal for your needs, you can consult this unit size guide.
As far as cost goes, renting a storage unit varies greatly based on location. Let’s take a look at how some cities fare in terms of self storage prices:
American homes clearly have a bit more than they should in terms of household items, but decluttering and sticking to essentials – whether you’re a minimalism fan or not – can help you get a handle on your possessions and ultimately live a more fulfilling life.
So finally, how many items does the average American own? The simple answer is too many!